Memories from Sarah, with help from Elinor and Amy
3rd January 2025
Sarah and Simon, Simon and Sarah - everyone said, and we knew, what a genuinely great team we made. We were kindred spirits, we shared the same values, we supported each other and helped each other flourish.
And we had both seen the same advert in The Guardian for various jobs in the Policy Research Unit, part of Leeds Metropolitan University - perhaps fate played a hand, it certainly became quite a love story. We started working there towards the end of 1993, both distinctly remembering our first meeting. It was such a special and rewarding time, our small disparate group of colleagues gelled professionally and personally under the brilliance of Mike Campbell – Simon greatly admired Mike, and thrived under his mentoring and support. He had found his vocation, and he was brilliant at it.
After finally becoming a couple in Autumn 1994, we decided very quickly that this was ‘it’, and four months later we had bought a house together in Calverley and acquired 2 rescue kittens Sooty and Sweep – though if Simon had realised quite how much Crazy Cat Lady was lurking, he may have reconsidered all of it.
Marriage and girls followed, and we moved to Ilkley to be nearer the hills….
It was all about the mountains
Simon introduced me to his love of the mountains, and our whole life together was defined by being in the outdoors, especially his beloved Lake District and the Scottish Highlands. He was still climbing when we met, but quickly realised my problem with heights was going to hinder doing anything but some easy scrambling. He did manage to encourage me across the precipitous Carn Mor Dearg Arete to the top of Ben Nevis in the early days, whilst I shouted something to the effect of “never again!”. Ever since then, he very carefully and considerately planned all our subsequent walks using my very specific ‘no steep drop’ and ’scrambling difficulty’ criteria.
We had lots of wonderful holidays in the Highlands, most often in a camper van piled high - the thrill never ceased of driving across Rannoch Moor and into Glen Coe, or seeing the Cairngorms range coming into view from the A9. Simon took me and the girls to the Cairngorms for the first time in August 2008 - and as we arrived in Aviemore mid-afternoon, the temperature dipped to 4 degrees. We had been promised the beach at Loch Morlich, we had buckets and spades and swimming gear at the ready – what was this place he had brought us to. We soon realised it was a very special place indeed, perfect to walk, bike, canoe, watch wildlife and just be in nature.
Again, it was in the Cairngorms, a very snowy February half term 2010, that Simon arranged for the 4 of us to have a crash course in something he called Nordic skiing – and we spent the next few days joyfully carving out our own little circuits and playing around. Simon and I were hooked, and we realised we had found something else we could do together – our mutual love of cross country skiing was borne. Though it wasn’t until 2015 that we realised there was a Club right here in Yorkshire that we could join and practise all year round. Little did we know then how much we were going to be involved in the running of the Club in future years! Simon absolutely loved cross country skiing, especially in Norway, and I’m so glad it was something we found that we could enjoy together.
We complemented each other
Simon was all about the big picture, and my small picture attention to detail could drive him to distraction, but at least that meant that I was happy to do all the admin, which he hated. And he did the ironing and shoe cleaning, which played to his neat and tidy strengths.
We planned our adventures together – we poured over the maps and guides, Simon worked out the routes, with me agonising over a 3.2 star review for a potential lunch stop.
Values were crucial to him
Simon was always authentic, and it didn’t matter to him where someone came from or what they did, it was what they thought (or didn’t). He cared deeply about inequality and injustice, and he really didn’t tolerate snobbery and self-important people – which he made very clear on occasions!
He was such brilliant company
So many people have said what interesting and entertaining conversations they used to have with Simon, about anything and everything. He was so funny and quick-witted and loved telling a good story. He had such an inquiring mind and a huge breadth of knowledge. And boy could he put the world to rights.
His tongue was often firmly in his cheek
Even those who knew Simon well sometimes couldn’t work out whether he was being serious or joking – there was often a fine line between. And we have probably all experienced that cheeky grin he seems to have usefully employed all his life.
He was very into his music
Simon enjoyed teaching Elinor and Amy what “good” music sounded like – he realised long ago that I was a lost cause. He tried to educate them with his playlists on Spotify, or by skipping through music channels until he found something that highlighted a different phase of his music tastes.
He had a lot of kit!
Simon’s ideal was a piece of kit for every possible occasion and every weather outcome. And a gadget for every task that would benefit from one. This is especially true of his collection of bikes. We’ve no idea how many there are, but can be sure he would have adhered strictly to one of the crucial rules of cycling – the correct number of bikes to own is N+1, where N is the number of bikes currently owned – so I’m hoping there’s not one on order somewhere.
And Simon took great care to look after all his kit. A happy day at home would involve much “fettling”, where he would spend many productive hours cleaning and working on said kit with said gadgets, whilst listening to some podcast he had downloaded, or blaring out one of his playlists.
He enjoyed helping people
Whether it was practically with a skill (he was so unbelievably practical), sharing his experience and knowledge, or the loan of a piece of kit or gadget, Simon was really generous with his time and possessions. From encouraging and helping young budding athletes he knew, to mentoring numerous colleagues through his work, to waxing a line of skis on the club holiday, to fettling with friends’ bikes, he took great satisfaction from it all.
He could be rather competitive
Simon particularly liked games which involved strategy or knowledge – ideally both. It was amazing how many trivial facts he knew, so Trivial Pursuit was a favourite - as long as it was the original version with proper questions and categories. He couldn’t be doing with the revised editions, probably because he didn’t know the answers. And he loved a good quiz too, especially if it was a humanities question – as he always used to say – “you know where you are with Geography and History”. People certainly wanted to be on his team because he would usually win.
And he especially enjoyed robust debate
It was often a case of “good luck” when someone tried to convince Simon of a different point of view. On one rare occasion we allowed him and Panos (his Greek brother-in-law) to be in the same room, their polite chit-chat quickly transformed into a combative discussion on the comparative popularity of cycling over basketball. For every well-known basketball country Panos mentioned e.g., Spain or Italy, Simon triumphantly countered, highlighting its Tour de ‘something’ as proof of cycling’s national dominance. Competitive instinct kicked in, and neither backed down then, nor subsequently.
He had so much sport to watch, listen to, and read about!
In winter it was biathlon, cross-country and downhill skiing. The rest of the year – any and every type of cycling. The weeks of the Tour de France, Giro and Vuelta were his favourites - he recorded the live broadcast of every stage, plus all of the analysis and highlights, fast-forwarding through the boring bits. Whatever the sport, whatever the race, a ‘no spoiler’ news blackout was requested until he had caught up.
He was very proud of his girls
He adored them and their individual characters, had fantastic relationships with them and loved spending time in their company. Simon couldn’t conceal his delight when Elinor chose to study Geography for her degree, and Amy History and Spanish. Proper subjects in his opinion. Not only could he have a real understanding of their work, but it also meant he had a perfect excuse to visit Spain even more regularly.
From Elinor and Amy - some of the things we will miss about our Dad in no particular order:
Laughing at his own jokes
Deciding whose turn it was to entertain him because he was bored
Finding him rummaging through a cupboard for something sweet to eat
Redoing our ironing and shoe cleaning with a smile on his face when it didn’t meet his standards
Watching the same film OVER AND OVER AGAIN
That he was so practical and could fix things
Enjoying a takeaway curry, as long as he could keep his own dishes to himself
Hearing Mum and Dad belly-laughing together at comedy tv and radio, especially when politicians were the butt of the joke.
Finding him sitting in the sun having “a 5-minute break” from whatever he was doing
All of us getting embarrassed by his “Tour de France” ringtone, especially when in public at the highest volume
Playing a board game and him blowing on the dice for good luck
Saying he wanted pasta every time he was asked what he’d like for dinner
Always having to have the tv remote next to him so that he could be in charge – and ensuring whatever we were watching was in HD
Telling us to put on a bloody coat when going out
His disappointment when neither of us wanted to be a cyclist
His enthusiasm for keeping us active and being outdoors
For looking out for us, looking after us and wanting the best for us We will miss these the most.
He was really looking forward to the future Simon was so excited about the trips and adventures he was going to enjoy over the coming years – bike and back packing especially, and obviously he had bought a load of new kit just for this purpose, including as he was thrilled to find, a lightweight stove that could boil water in just 90 seconds, and a rucksack for which I had to measure his back dimensions very carefully to get the exact correct fit. No pressure there.
The four of us should have been on a mini-break in Ambleside this week, celebrating Simon’s 60th birthday and marking the much longed for start of his semi-retirement. He had already thought about the walks we would do of course, and the packing pile had started.
He was looking forward to spending more time on adventures with friends and family, but he was also relishing the prospect of time to be alone in the mountains, for he did enjoy the solitude and peace of walking by himself, and at his own pace. And that’s just what he was doing that fateful day Sunday 11th December – it was forecast a beautiful day in the Lakes, so he had enthusiastically planned a long walk taking in Coniston Old Man, a favourite done many times before. It was just supposed to be another walk on a completely normal day.